Write About What You’re Looking for in a Partner
When writing their descriptions, a lot of people try to cram as much information about themselves as possible. This innocent mistake can greatly reduce the amount of messages you receive. In the same study as above, researchers found that the most most popular online daters only used 70% of their profiles to talk about themselves and used the remaining 30% to describe what they’re looking for in a partner.
For example, you could say:
“I’m an adventurous person who loves to spend time outdoors and am looking for a like-minded individual to share fun experiences with.”
Show Emotional Availability
Social Psychologists Stephanie Spielmann and Geoff MacDonald conducted experiments to find out what matters more on online dating profiles: attractiveness or emotional availability. When given the choice between a sexy but emotionally unavailable person or someone who is less attractive but appears caring and emotionally responsive, both men and women tended to the more emotionally available person.
Instead write things like: “I enjoy going to music festivals and am looking for someone who shares my love of music and spending time with people.”
Warning: Don’t lie on your profile. If you’re looking for casual, low-commitment relationships, be honest, otherwise you’re going to attract people who expect more from you than you’re willing to give.
Action step: Focus on your hobbies and character traits that are people and value centered to show that you are emotionally available to develop meaningful relationships with people.
How do you show emotional availability?
Avoid insensitive statements like: “I am a highly driven person who is focused on my career and am willing to do whatever it takes to succeed.”
Profile picture
The most attractive profile pictures, especially for women, showed them smiling genuinely at the camera with their head slightly tilted.
Upload different pictures of you, not only face pictures. Do not upload picture af animal and food.
Read more about communication on dating site here
Remember, you’re looking for a relationship, not a promotion.
Good Luck